MARK FREEMAN

Holistically and actively supporting great mental health.

January 26, 2012
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Exposure & Response Prevention for OCD Door Checking

A quick video talking about my old, OCD door checking compulsion and the huge spike in anxiety I experienced the first time I practiced Exposure & Response Prevention (ERP) techniques with that compulsion.

If you’re doing ERP, be prepared for that big spike in anxiety. It’s not a bad thing. Don’t avoid it. Just as exercising makes your heart pound, especially if you haven’t exercised in a long time, so too does ERP make your brain pound and sweat and shout. But that’s a sign you should do more of it. ERP exercises your brain. Anxiety is just your brain sweating.

 

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January 11, 2012
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New Year Special: Online Anxiety Coaching for $37 per Session

To start off the Year of the Dragon, learn how to ride your dragons.

This year is a great year to learn how to accept anxiety and put your compulsive, unhealthy behaviors behind you. So I’m offering a special right now: If you begin coaching with me this January you’ll only pay $37 per 50 minute online coaching session for as long Continue reading “New Year Special: Online Anxiety Coaching for $37 per Session” »

January 9, 2012
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Training your Subconscious Puppy

Here’s the beautiful paradox of Acceptance: If you accept all of your worries and intrusive thoughts instead of trying to fight them or be certain about them, you’ll gradually get rid of them. This is not the goal of Acceptance because there’s nothing wrong with those thoughts. But it’s a wonderful side-effect of Acceptance.

When you fight intrusive thoughts, you place value on them in your brain, particularly to your subconscious, the part of your mind that’s throwing these thoughts and impulses at you. Your subconscious is a lot like a poorly trained puppy that keeps bringing you disgusting gifts.

Unfortunately, we’re the ones who inadvertently trained our subconscious puppies to pee all over our work, rip up our favorite relationships and constantly bring us rotting thoughts that stink up our brains. Continue reading “Training your Subconscious Puppy” »

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January 9, 2012
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Practicing Acceptance on the Road

The road is one of the best places to practice Acceptance. You’ll often be out driving, likely on your way to work or home after a long day, and then somebody cuts into traffic or switches lanes, runs a traffic light, etc. And that sparks lots of negative thoughts and judgements—what an idiot! He could have killed somebody?! Can’t she see me? He should get a ticket! She could have hit that pedestrian! That almost got me into an accident. Why can’t people pay attention to what they’re doing? Continue reading “Practicing Acceptance on the Road” »